Sexual Health

Hi boys, it's Monday, another warm summer night, and I'm out on the patio enjoying the night air as I write tonight's post. I got a really great question for our Ask Kyle column in my inbox the other night from a guy in Toledo, Ohio who wishes to remain anonymous. Check out his question, and then click the read more link to find out my answer:

Q: Hi Kyle. I've got a question that's been nagging at me for a while now, and I thought maybe you could set my mind at ease on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, and we are both monogamous and tested completely STD-free at three months and six months into the relationship. He wants to cum inside my anus while we're having sex, but after so many years of having only protected sex, I'm a little bit nervous about it. I know he's STD-free, but are there any other health risks associated with leaving semen inside of you after gay sex? My boyfriend lovingly (and laughingly!) says I'm being obsessive-compulsive about this and that there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, but I've never done it before and I want to go into it with a clear conscience! Help me out Kyle--thanks! To find out the answer,  read more »

Hi guys, how's Monday for ya so far? Mine's great. My boyfriend just called and surprised me with the news that we're going on a mini vacation in the middle of August--there's no better surprise than that! Sandy beaches in a gay friendly locale... I'm really looking forward to spending that time with him, and you can bet that I'll be packing a bunch of our favorite gay sex toys from Blappr. That's not a plug, I really do use Blappr's sex toys for gay men! I write about them because I am passionate about them, and I think once you try something from our collection you'll become just as passionate about them as I am.

Today's Ask Kyle question comes from Kurt in Seattle:

Q: What's up Kyle? Your blog is great. I used to get by without sex toys because I was too embarrassed to go to the local sex shop and buy them--now I just go to Blappr and purchase whatever I want discreetly. I'd never have found Blappr if it weren't for your blog, so I just want to thank you for that. Anyway, now I have a pretty good collection going, and my boyfriend and I love to spend the weekends trying out new sex toys. I'm not satisfied with the lubes that we've tried so far. It seems to me that none of them last long enough. I was wondering what the best and longest lasting lubes are for use with and without sex toys for gay men? Help me out bro. Thanks! To find out the answer,  read more »

We're finally on the very last post of our five-part series on the male G-spot, better known as the prostate! It's been a wild ride, hasn't it guys? In the Part I you learned where the male G-spot is and how to access it. In Part II and Part III you learned about the world-renowned Aneros series of gay sex toys that are designed scientifically to reach your male G-spot or prostate. Then in Part IV I told you about a few bargain items that let you reach the right spot on a budget. Today I'm going to continue in that, sharing two more less expensive G-spot toys with you, courtesy of your gay sex toys experts at Blappr. Let's check 'em out...  read more »

Over the last two weeks you have enjoyed Blappr's three-part series on the male G-spot. Missed one? Grab 'em here:

• Ask Kyle: Is There Really a Male G-Spot? Part I of III
• Ask Kyle: Is There Really a Male G-Spot? Part II of III
• Ask Kyle: Is There Really a Male G-Spot? Part III of III
• ...or browse our complete selection of male G-spot gay sex toys here!

I planned to wrap up the series right there, but then in the middle of that series I got this question from a loyal Blappr customer named J.:

Q:"Kyle, I am loving this male G spot special that you're doing on the Blappr blog. I never explored this until I read the first part last week, and now I'm really excited to get in the bedroom with my boyfriend and create even more pleasure between us. Now I've bought many sex toys from Blappr, but I don't like to spend an arm and a leg for a climax, know what I'm sayin? I like to go for the cheaper versions--that way if the piece breaks, I can pick up a new one without breaking the bank. These Aneros G spot toys are a little too high for my price range. Is there something else that will get me off just as well without the beefed up price tag? Thanks man, can't wait to hear back from you."  read more »

Hi again guys! It's Monday again and we're continuing our three-part series on the male G-spot, better known as the prostate. Who knew that the prostate gland also doubled as the male G-spot? Well, now you do! In the first and second parts of this series, I told you how to access the male G-spot and then what gay sex toys are the best for reaching that special part of our anatomy.

You'll recall that I detailed three of the toys from the G-spot section of our catalog last week--that leaves seven more great items! I'm going to detail the rest of our Aneros G-spot stimulators for you today. I can hear you saying, "But Kyle, what about the other four?" Well, there's a special bonus segment coming up on Thursday (thanks to J. who submitted a question after last week's posts!) that's centered specifically on those items! So stay tuned for that, but in the meantime keep reading--you don't want to miss out on these fabulous G-spot stimulators by the world-renowned Aneros brand.  read more »

On Monday we had an Ask Kyle post where I answered a question from Juke in Connecticut about whether or not there is really a male G-spot! If you missed that blog entry you can find it right here. The answer to that question was of course YES, and it's actually your prostate. You can achieve very intense orgasms by stimulating your prostate or male G-spot, and Blappr offers a fantastic selection of sex toys by Aneros as well as other brands that are designed specifically to stimulate that special part of your anatomy. In today's post, part two of our special three-part series on the male G-spot, I'm going to tell you about a few ways to hit the right spot and keep it blazing in the bedroom!  read more »

Happy Monday all! I'm back with yet another Ask Kyle update for you. I'd like to thank our readers for keeping me supplied with enough questions to keep writing these every single week. You keep it interesting around here, and all of us at Blappr appreciate it. Here's this week's question from Juke in Connecticut:

Kyle! This question has been on my mind for a long while now. My friends keep telling me about this male G spot. Now personally I can't imagine cumming any harder or better than I do now, but hey, I'll try anything once. So is there any truth the rumor of there being a male G spot, and if so, what do I have to do to hit it? To find out the answer,  read more »

Hey guys, how was your Monday? I just enjoyed a weekend away with my boyfriend, no internet, no phone, no interruptions. Needless to say we got some major "catching up" out of the way, and by that I DO mean SEX! But enough about me and my sizzling weekend...

Right now I've got a very special edition of Ask Kyle for you... a compilation of all of our past questions and answers up to this point! Enjoy... and if you've got a question of your own, don't forget that you can reach me anytime at kyle@blappr.com.  read more »

We missed our usual Monday Ask Kyle blog post last week because of my commentary on the exclusion of the LGBT community at the St. Patrick's Day parade in New York City--but it's Monday once again and I've got a fresh one for you. This one comes from Chris in Spokane, WA:

Q: Dear Kyle, I'm 23 and I just came out. I've avoided sex for many years, because of being so uncomfortable with my sexuality. The only experiences I had up until recently were with girls, all protected sex, and definitely not very pleasurable for me. Now I'm finally having sex with guys and really enjoying it. I want to have oral sex, but I'm concerned about getting HIV. None of my friends use protection when they have oral sex, and I would rather not--but I also don't want to put myself at risk for STDs. What's the story on unprotected oral sex and HIV? I'm not sure what to do...  read more »

Hey guys, how is your Monday so far? Mine is great. It's time for another Ask Kyle post, and I've got a question here from a guy in Raleigh, NC who wishes to remain nameless. Check it out:

"Dear Kyle, I have been thinking of increasing the size of my member, and I thought maybe a penis pump could be the answer for me. I'm pretty average and I'd like to be a little above average if you know what I mean. I'm not dating anybody at the moment, and next time I do, I'd like to be a little more impressive in the bedroom, as far as size goes... What's your personal opinion on penis pumps, and is there one that you would recommend?"  read more »