Ask Kyle

Hi guys, it's a new week here on Blappr and that means that I've got a fresh Ask Kyle post for you. Slim from New Jersey wrote to ask me about anal beads, and I've actually gotten quite a few questions about anal beads recently so I thought it would be good to share this one with all of you. Here's his question:

Q: Dear Kyle, been enjoying your posts on Blappr very much and I thought I'd drop you a line for 'Ask Kyle' and see if you could help me out with my first purchase from your site. I've become a fan of anal beads recently, after my boyfriend got me to try them out at his place. I've been wanting to get some for myself, but there are so many and I just don't know where to begin. What are two or three items from the anal beads category that you think would make a nice beginner's set for a guy like me?"

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In case you missed yesterday's blog post, Kristof from Las Vegas wrote to ask us if we had anything "new and exciting that still retains all the classic features of a standard butt plug." If you're a longtime customer, you know that the answer to that one is yes! I told him about three products yesterday that clearly fit the bill--the Anal Plug (Purple Jelly), the COLT Gear Expandable Butt Plug, and the Enspiral Swirl Top Butt Plug. Those, of course, are just the beginning. I've got three more to tell you about today, or you can just cut to the chase and browse our entire collection of butt plugs.

You know Kyle's got the goods though. Ready to see what I've got for you?  read more »

What's up guys? This is Kyle, writing to you this time from my laptop on a sandy beach! It's vacation time and I am loving it. Writing my Blappr blogs is never work though, because I get to connect with other gay guys like myself who are interested in my passion: Gay sex toys! Today I got an email for our Ask Kyle column from Kristof in Las Vegas. This is what he had to say:

Q: "Dear Kyle, I recently checked out Blappr on the advice of a good friend, and I really like what I see so far. I'm the kind of guy who is pretty exclusive to butt plugs. I've never really ventured into any other gay sex toys territory, and at the moment I really don't want to. I'm bored with what I have though. I want to try something new and exciting that still retains all the classic features of a standard butt plug. Any suggestions for me? Thanks man. Can't wait to hear back."

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Hi boys, it's Monday, another warm summer night, and I'm out on the patio enjoying the night air as I write tonight's post. I got a really great question for our Ask Kyle column in my inbox the other night from a guy in Toledo, Ohio who wishes to remain anonymous. Check out his question, and then click the read more link to find out my answer:

Q: Hi Kyle. I've got a question that's been nagging at me for a while now, and I thought maybe you could set my mind at ease on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, and we are both monogamous and tested completely STD-free at three months and six months into the relationship. He wants to cum inside my anus while we're having sex, but after so many years of having only protected sex, I'm a little bit nervous about it. I know he's STD-free, but are there any other health risks associated with leaving semen inside of you after gay sex? My boyfriend lovingly (and laughingly!) says I'm being obsessive-compulsive about this and that there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, but I've never done it before and I want to go into it with a clear conscience! Help me out Kyle--thanks! To find out the answer,  read more »

Hi guys, it's Monday again here on Blappr and you know what that means--a fresh Ask Kyle blog post! Today's question comes from Kent in Cocoa Beach, FL. Let's see what he has to say:

Kyle! What's up? I'm reading your blog for the first time today and I really like what I see. I'm a gay man, in my mid-thirties, and while I've got a small collection of sex toys, I've never really ventured outside the box to try anything different. Everything I have pretty much falls into the jelly dildos category. I own about six of them in different colors and sizes. I like them, they work for me, so up until now I've never really thought about trying anything new. Looking at the hot gay sex toys recommendations on your blog has me itching to up my game. What's something in the anal play category that would really give me a nice change of pace, without being so far out there that I can't get into it? Thanks Kyle, looking forward to your response.

I love your question, Kent! I think there are a lot of guys out there that fall into the same category as you. They've been doing what works and they've been stuck in that groove for a long time. If your playtime starts to get boring, whether it's solo or with your boyfriend, it's time to shake things up with a brand new item that you've never tried before. But where to begin? Well, I've got a very hot recommendation for you--one of my personal favorites:  read more »

Hi guys, how's Monday for ya so far? Mine's great. My boyfriend just called and surprised me with the news that we're going on a mini vacation in the middle of August--there's no better surprise than that! Sandy beaches in a gay friendly locale... I'm really looking forward to spending that time with him, and you can bet that I'll be packing a bunch of our favorite gay sex toys from Blappr. That's not a plug, I really do use Blappr's sex toys for gay men! I write about them because I am passionate about them, and I think once you try something from our collection you'll become just as passionate about them as I am.

Today's Ask Kyle question comes from Kurt in Seattle:

Q: What's up Kyle? Your blog is great. I used to get by without sex toys because I was too embarrassed to go to the local sex shop and buy them--now I just go to Blappr and purchase whatever I want discreetly. I'd never have found Blappr if it weren't for your blog, so I just want to thank you for that. Anyway, now I have a pretty good collection going, and my boyfriend and I love to spend the weekends trying out new sex toys. I'm not satisfied with the lubes that we've tried so far. It seems to me that none of them last long enough. I was wondering what the best and longest lasting lubes are for use with and without sex toys for gay men? Help me out bro. Thanks! To find out the answer,  read more »

Hi guys--it's a new week again and I've got a brand new Ask Kyle blog entry for you, this time centering on a relationship question. This one comes from Amblin who wishes for his location to remain private. Here's his original email:

Q: "Dear Kyle... Hi there. I stumbled across your blog the other night and spent an hour or so reading some of the advice that you've given to your readers. Maybe you can help me out too. I've been with my partner for over five years, and we fully intend to spend the rest of our lives together. Our state prohibits gay marriage but we've chosen to stay here to be close to friends and family--until we have marriage equality here, it looks like Manny and I won't be saying those vows. Nonetheless, we feel that we are married at heart. We have that close of a relationship. We've lived together for almost four years. And we talk about adopting kids all the time, though I'm not sure how soon we'll materialize those plans. The question right now is this...

"We handle all our finances together--or more accurately I handle both of ours--but up to now we have maintained separate bank accounts. Lately it's really been getting to me. I wish we could combine our accounts into one joint account like married couples do. While I'm great at keeping the bills paid, I don't know that much about the legal side of things. Should Manny and I get a joint bank account, or are there drawbacks that I don't know about? Thanks Kyle. I'm really looking forward to hearing your advice on this." To find out the answer,  read more »

We're finally on the very last post of our five-part series on the male G-spot, better known as the prostate! It's been a wild ride, hasn't it guys? In the Part I you learned where the male G-spot is and how to access it. In Part II and Part III you learned about the world-renowned Aneros series of gay sex toys that are designed scientifically to reach your male G-spot or prostate. Then in Part IV I told you about a few bargain items that let you reach the right spot on a budget. Today I'm going to continue in that, sharing two more less expensive G-spot toys with you, courtesy of your gay sex toys experts at Blappr. Let's check 'em out...  read more »

Over the last two weeks you have enjoyed Blappr's three-part series on the male G-spot. Missed one? Grab 'em here:

• Ask Kyle: Is There Really a Male G-Spot? Part I of III
• Ask Kyle: Is There Really a Male G-Spot? Part II of III
• Ask Kyle: Is There Really a Male G-Spot? Part III of III
• ...or browse our complete selection of male G-spot gay sex toys here!

I planned to wrap up the series right there, but then in the middle of that series I got this question from a loyal Blappr customer named J.:

Q:"Kyle, I am loving this male G spot special that you're doing on the Blappr blog. I never explored this until I read the first part last week, and now I'm really excited to get in the bedroom with my boyfriend and create even more pleasure between us. Now I've bought many sex toys from Blappr, but I don't like to spend an arm and a leg for a climax, know what I'm sayin? I like to go for the cheaper versions--that way if the piece breaks, I can pick up a new one without breaking the bank. These Aneros G spot toys are a little too high for my price range. Is there something else that will get me off just as well without the beefed up price tag? Thanks man, can't wait to hear back from you."  read more »

Hi again guys! It's Monday again and we're continuing our three-part series on the male G-spot, better known as the prostate. Who knew that the prostate gland also doubled as the male G-spot? Well, now you do! In the first and second parts of this series, I told you how to access the male G-spot and then what gay sex toys are the best for reaching that special part of our anatomy.

You'll recall that I detailed three of the toys from the G-spot section of our catalog last week--that leaves seven more great items! I'm going to detail the rest of our Aneros G-spot stimulators for you today. I can hear you saying, "But Kyle, what about the other four?" Well, there's a special bonus segment coming up on Thursday (thanks to J. who submitted a question after last week's posts!) that's centered specifically on those items! So stay tuned for that, but in the meantime keep reading--you don't want to miss out on these fabulous G-spot stimulators by the world-renowned Aneros brand.  read more »